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Wednesday, January 25, 2012

My Lunar New Year Eve Reunion Dinner


Homemade Yu Sheng (some kind of salad with raw salmon) for 16 adults.

 

All ingredients in, before the tug in


Tug in and toss the lo hei.

Reunion dinner this year was like the previous years. It was pot luck
style. Each family brought a dish and we have a good mix of dishes. We use
to have steamboat but found that it is too challenging to manage for a
family of 16 people. We would need 2 or 3 cookers, otherwise it takes too
long to wait for the food to get cooked. Not everyone like to test their
patience for food during a reunion dinner..

We started with the Yu sheng which is everybody’s favourite. Each of us
have our seconds and we thoroughly enjoyed it. Within twenty minutes we
have almost finished the big plate of Yu Sheng which took a couple of
hours to prepare.

  Next we proceeded with the rest of the food like curry chicken, the
infamous vegetarian dish, home-made char siew, each has a bowl of fish
maw soup, battered fried prawns and squid

Then we had jelly for dessert after which we gave out hong pows (red packets) to the all the niece and nephews.

Monday, January 23, 2012

Chinese New Year - First Day


Chinese New Year fireworks will mark the beginning of the Chinese New Year festival which normally last for 15 days. The sound of firecrackers tells people the new year has arrived. People offer New Year's greetings to one another. The most popular greeting is Gong Xi Fa Chai   (Cantonese pronounces Gong Hay Fat Choy), which means "congratulations and may you make a great fortune." The firecrackers and such greetings are from the story of animal Nian. "Make a fortune" is to wish people rich, because Chinese love to talk about money.


Some Chinese family change the new clothes right after midnight or after the Rat hour in the Chinese New Year Eve. Then they choose the lucky hour from Chinese Farmer's Calendar to worship spirits and commemorate ancestors with candles, fruit, rice cake, tea, long noodle and candies. The purpose of this worship to tell spirits and ancestors the new year has arrived. At the end of the ceremony, they will open the door, select a lucky money direction to explode the firecrackers, which means to get rid of old bad stuff and welcome a new chapter of their life. Some Chinese families give the Red Envelope to children at this time before the children resigns to bed.

After dawn, it's time to say Chinese New Year greetings to neighbors, friends, coworkers, and relatives. Before the time of the telephone and various social networking apps, school teachers will go back to school to greet each other. Government employees will go back the office to say happy new year. Now many people say Gong Xi Fa Chai by phone or send the greeting by e-mail.
On the Chinese New Year day, the Chinese have the breakfast without meat from the New Year Eve leftover. At noon, they will proceed to worship the Spirit of The House with simple animal sacrifices, vegetables and rice. In the evening, they commemorate and worship family ancestors again with full dinner food.

In the morning, all the children are supposed to wear new clothes, pants, shoes, hat or jacket. Every family should prepare many different kinds of sweet candies in a tray for visitors. If a child goes with an adult to visit someone and says Gong Xi Fa Chai, he can receive a Red Envelope. In Taiwan, the president, city majors and temples will prepare many Red Envelopes for their supporters. Since the number of Red Envelopes is limited, people have to go earlier and wait in a long line in order to have a handshake and Red Envelope.


Chinese New Year day is closed to the early spring. That means it's a beginning of blossom season. The popular flowers for Chinese New Year are orchid, narcissuses, peach flower, chrysanthemum, kumquat, cherry blossoms, camellia and so on. So some people like to visit the flower gardens or attend flower expo to enjoy the sight of flowers or buy some flower pots home.


Some Chinese would like to take the whole family to the countryside to enjoy the beautiful scenery. Some like to go to temples to see the crowd and pray for good luck for the new year. Today, more young people go to department stores to spend their Red Envelope money and shop for the New Year special bargains or go to the movies with friends. And there are some who like to sit by the Mah-Jong ( a game using tiles shown below) table to earn money.


Lion dancing or dragon dancing are welcomed activites in most of the modern city street. Some people have to go to national culture streets to see the Chinese New Year traditional activities. Over there, people can see lion dance, the god of money, parade, open theater opera, puppet show, etc. They also can buy different traditional candies, their zodiac animal symbols, food, gifts from the culture stores.


The Chinese has kept the lion dancing custom because they think the lion image can expel the evil spirits away. The Chinese believe that the dragon is in charge of rain. Hence, dragon dancing is praying for appropriate rain to grow the more crops during the farmer society. Also, the dragon is an auspicious and notable symbol which can bring people good luck.


The unique style of music for Chinese New Year can be hear at Chinese New Year Music. You can hear those music from department stores, radio stations, TV stations, and during the lion dancing or dragon dancing on the street.



There are some taboo on the Chinese New Year Day.

Since everybody is in a festival mood under a joyful and hilarious atmosphere, people shouldn't argue with each other. Also parents shouldn't scold or punish the children. Otherwise, you will have more argument in the new year.

Women shouldn't use a knife or shear in the kitchen, which indicates evil, anger, danger and cutting out one's luck. As such, women do not cook new dishes on this day, people eat leftover meals.

Breaking any dishes, bowls or cups means bad luck would come. In case you break anything, then  put all broken pieces in a round container until the next trash day.

A married women shouldn't go back to her mother's home, otherwise her mother's family will get poorer.

To sweep the floor or dump the trash will take away the wealth and luck from the house.

Don't have a lunch nap at noon, otherwise people will be lazy year long.

To wash your hair will wash your good luck away.

Don't wear black or white to visit friends, because black and white are the funeral colors in China

One shouldn't visit a friend's house, if they have a family member who just past away.

Don't eat rice porridge for breakfast, otherwise you won't get rich because only poor people eat rice porridge in the past.

Don't eat meat in the morning breakfast, because many gods who are vegetarians arrive New Year Day festival in the morning.

Don't eat unnecessary medicine during the day, otherwise you will become unhealthy this year.

Don't wash clothes, because New Year Day is the birthday of  the god of Water.

If someone owes you money, do not ask for the money back on this day. Otherwise, you will be asking for money for the rest of the year.

Here's wishing all a Blessed Lunar New Year !!

Chinese New Year Eve


Chinese New Year is a very grand occasion for the Chinese all over the world. Here is an account of some of the beliefs practised by many but with modernization, many of these practices are no longer followed.

Chinese New Year Eve usually is on 30th lunar day of 12th lunar month. However, a lunar month might have only 29 days. In this case, the Chinese New Year Eve becomes on 29th day of 12th lunar month. The next day will be a new moon day, which is the Chinese New Year Day.

In Chinese, Chinese New Year Eve is called Chu-Xi  or Guo-Nian . Chu  means removal. Xi  means night. Guo  means passing. Nian  means year.

The original meaning of Nian  is related to afarmer's harvest. Chinese farmers celebrate their harvest for the past year, they appreciate the gracious reward given from the gods, and prayed for the same luck for the coming year.

Nobody knows when the legendary story about Nian began. Nian was a ferocious and carnivorous beast. It had lion-type head with elephant-type body. As the legend goes, Nian couldn't find its food in the cold winter months because many animals were hibernating in the mountains. So Nian was forced to go down from the mountain to the lowlands where the villages were to look for livestock. Later, Nian became a man-eater.

Nian was very strong and took many innocent lives. Every winter night, the villages stayed inside their houses to protect themselves from this ferocious animal. With time, the villages found that Nian was afraid of red, fire and noisy sounds. Hence the villages cut red-color peach wood to hang on the doors, and made a campfire in the front of the main door as well. When Nian approached the villages, the people put the bamboo into an open fire and burn them to make a loud cracking sound. They also beat the metal kitchen and farming utensils to make noisy sound to scare Nian away.

The villages survived the long ordeal, celebrated and congratulated each other. They felt like a restarting anew, a new chapter to mark the passing of the disaster. And so, they called Guo-Nian (passing Nian)  the day before the new starting day.



House cleaning should be ready on or before the day Chinese New Year eve. But most Chinese families are still very busy on this day doing last minute preparations. Early morning, someone has to go to the flower-market to buy flowers for worship events and new year day decorations. Red is the auspicious color in China. The pink peach flowesr and Japanese sakura are very popular choices for the flower arrangement.

The first event on Chinese New Year Eve is to worship the Jade Emperor with flowers and fruits without animal sacrifices (top ranking gods are vegetarian). This is normally done in the early morning to give thanks for the gracious protection from the god of heaven in the past year and pray for safety, harmonious and good fortune for the coming year.

Many families probably would still be working on the final decoration of their homes. They will decorate the doors and windows. Chinese calligraphers write New Year's poetry on the red color paper and it is customary for people to paste them on the top and both of sides of main-entry door. They believe this custom comes from the story of man-eater Nian animal, which was afraid of red color. There are occasions  where people drew The God of the Door images on red-color peach tree wooden blocks and hang them on the door to scare the devil spirit away. Later, the Chinese use red color paper instead. There is a even simpler way is to write a single character on the diamond-shape red paper and paste on the doors, windows, containers, posts, storages and money safety boxes. The popular characters are Spring, Luck, Full, Money, Happiness, Wealth, Safety or Prosperity. Some are posted upside down, because the sound of upside-down in Chinese is similar to the word of come. So the upside-down MONEY poster means money comes. The upside-down LUCK poster means the luck comes.


Long ago, the Chinese paste the New Year paper-cutting arts on the windows. It's hard to find people doing this today, because it required experience, skill and lots of patience to create those art works. It's also time-consuming to put the arts on the windows.

In the afternoon around 2 or 3 P.M., Chinese would say good-bye to the current year by serving the gods and ancestors at their family Buddhist altar with Nian-Gao (sweet rice cake, picture below), Fa-Gao (steamed rice cake), animal sacrifices (pork, duck, chicken or fish), fruit, drink, candy with big red candles. Long ago, one important and special item is to put a hundred of coins tied with red thread with the hope for good luck and longevity to 100 years. Today, people put cash as much as you can instead.


After saying goodbye to gods and ancestors, women begin to prepare the reunion dinner. The main dish sitting on the center of the table is Hot-Pot. The traditional Hot-Pot is a big metal (alumni) bowel and has a hollow tube in the center. Chinese put hot bone soup in the bowel and cook different kind of sliced meat, seafood, vegetable, meat balls and seafood balls during the dinner. They put hot-rock or hot-coal inside the hollow tube to keep food warm. So they can eat the reunion dinner each for hours.

Chinese New Year day usually is close to spring, but it's very often that the weather is still cold. In ancient China, in order to eat the warm food, Chinese had to sit around the cooking stove for New Year Eve dinner. That's why this dinner is also called Wei-Lu , which means "surrounding the stove".

There are many dishes on the dinner table. Every dish has an auspicious meaning behind it. It's connected to longevity, reunion, perfection, good luck, health, diligence, satisfaction or promotion based on the homophone of the dish's name. Family members are supposed to have some from every dish. So they can eat and chat for longer time and share love and care during this time. However, Chinese don't touch fish on the table. This is because the homophone of fish is remainder, which means they have  surplus or extra saving in the end of the year. In the other hand, they need leftover for Chinese New Year Day - nobody cooks at home.


After dinner, that's a exciting time for the children. They are waiting for New Year's Hong Bao , which is a Red Envelope containing the brand-new money. Adult or parents will hand out the Red Envelopes to children, unmarried immediate family and their parents before going to the bed. Children will put all Red Envelopes under the pillow when sleeping. They said children can sleep well without bad dream and become richer next year. The family expense increase sharply during Chinese New Year period. Usually, Chinese receive year-end bonus about one or two month salary pay. (The lucky one can even have one year salary) from the company before Chinese New Year holiday. Therefore most family can afford a better food, clothing and decoration for Chinese New Year. Banks will prepare many brand new bills for people to exchange. That's why all the lucky money in the Red Envelope are brand-new.


The last event is the vigil to wait for new year coming. One main reason is this can extend parents lifespan. The sound of Sleepiness in Chinese is similar to Trouble. Sleepless means no trouble for the coming year. How can Chinese keep them awake? It's simple. They watch TV shows for Chinese New Year special. The other way is gambling - playing Mah-Jong. It's required lots of skill, memorization, calculation, strategy and luck to win the money. Since the fully concentration, you will feel the time pass quickly. Usually, they will play Mah-Jong all night long, because the loser wouldn't quit.

Many people will gather outside the temple after reunion dinner, everyone wants to be the first person of the year to be blessed by the God. There is the first incense stick race at many temples every year. One the first second of Rat hour, 11 P.M., as soon as the temple's main gate is opened, people will dash into the temple to insert the incense stick into the incense container. The winner will win a big Red-Envelope from the temple. But the most important thing is the winner will be very lucky in the coming year.

After receiving the Red Envelopes, young people like to go outside for the vigil of the year. Before midnight, they gather with friends or relatives around park, riverside or tall buildings to wait for the Chinese New Year fireworks.





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